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Hair Crisis

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  Love-Hate Relationship With My Hair        Having a wavy hair is like having an extreme mood swings. It is so hard to deal with, because every single time I try to fix it and make it evenly looking each angle and side, it is still has its own direction. There are times that it is so good looking and it is cooperating, flowing beautifully, making me feel like a hair model. There are also times that it is so terrible to look at, when I think I have got it under control, it decides to rebel, going every which way like it is got a mind of its own. And it is a very frustrating feeling ever to exist in my frustration issues. Love Relationship with my Wavy Hair Alright, let us talk wavy hair in its positive view, it is like having a friend who is a bit unpredictable but always keeps things interesting. Some days, it is like, "Wow, where have you been all my life?" Your waves are just doing their thing, making you feel like a million dollars without even trying. And a...

Rainbow Trip

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  Exploring Genders and Sexualities First things first, can we just take a moment to appreciate how awesome it is to be part of the LGBTQIA+ community. It is like being part of the coolest club in town. Everyone is very welcome, and the vibes are always on perfect point.  Everytime I am able to get to know anything about the LGBTQIA+ community, it feels like getting to know myself more and each discovery feels like a piece of the puzzle falling into place, helping me understand myself a little bit better, because I am myself is a part of the community and I am very grateful to be a part of it. It is like finding a long-lost cousin at a family reunion, you did not even know they existed, but suddenly everything makes sense. Learning about different identities, hearing people's stories, and sharing my own experiences that all feel like connecting the dots of my own identity in this crazy, beautiful mosaic we call life. I just love how dream-like and colourful it is...

Outfit-Picking Ritual

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  Customizing/Making/Buying Clothes         There is just something about getting to choose what clothes or outfits I would wear for a day that makes my happy hormones triggered. It feels like being in love with someone, the feeling is like something is gently tickling the depths of my being and gives me that warm, fuzzy feeling deep down inside. When there is a time that I could get to do that, on that day, I would be more productive and motivated to do things such as my schoolworks that I usually do right the day of the deadline, socializing which I get easily tired of when it's just a normal day and some time I do not really have the energy to do, and household chores that I am so lazy to do but I want the house cleaned up. I love to dress in a style I want to because choosing my outfit is not just about looking good, it is my way of saying, "Hey world, this is me!" It is about feeling confident and showing off my own style and also I can authentically showca...